Meeting people at a business or networking event feels pretty easy when you’ve already gotten past the fear of rejection of talking to beautiful women who could reject you.) Write down a list of 5 places you could go to meet compatible women. I want you to now imagine a girl or woman you have a crush on. Only after we find a girl physically attractive are we open to being even more won over by her personality, common interests, etc. It wired us to be attracted to a women likely to produce healthy kids with great genes.
If you’re sitting at home all day, then the rest of this article won’t help you much. I had a couple part time jobs where I met a dozen more. I’m sure you can’t think of a time when a girl you were totally physically not attracted to suddenly won you over with her sense of humour. For example, ever noticed how the woman is almost always a few years younger than the man in any couple? Because a woman who is younger was a lot more likely to have a healthy pregnancy in the distant past. It was true a few thousand and a few million years ago.
Shy women usually don’t have the same problems us guys do.
I talked about this in my video on social anxiety and dating.
Think of any hobbies you’ve ever thought of trying — whether it’s drawing, martial arts, meditation — and see where these classes are offered. Scientific studies have also found that men across cultures prefer about a 0.7 hip-to-waist ratio. Because it’s this body shape that would most successfully give birth to a child in our distant past.