To get some insight into what women go through on these dating websites, I pulled aside one of my family members who I knew had spent some time on these sites looking for her future spouse.
We became good friends first and we only started dating 2 years later.
That was mostly because I transferred schools, but because we became friends first, we had a connection that drew us back together for a chance at something more.
"Dating someone with anxiety is like owning a beautiful house, but you don't have a key for it," he told Refinery29.
"You can't just break the door down, but you have to find some other way into it.
An intuition that everything is objectively, incontrovertibly doomed.